Friday, May 31, 2013

Your Newest Valentine



A very, very belated Happy Valentine's Day!

Back in February, when I spent my days on the couch with Emmeline I had this fabulous idea to make homemade valentines from Emmeline. I was going to mail them out to everyone. But... making the image was about as far as I got. I tried printing them once, but when they didn't print out correctly and it was already past Valentine's Day... my project kind of died. 

So Happy Valentine's Day everyone, you can pretend you got this super cute printed out valentine from your newest valentine!

Btw, isn't she adorable? I only took about 30 pictures before I found one that worked :)

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Emmeline's Newborns

When Emmeline was 6 days old we took her to get her newborns. I was nervous that she wouldn't cooperate. She typically doesn't stay asleep unless held, so I was nervous. But thanks to their warming blankets and the heater they had directed at her, she stayed deeply asleep the whole time. I couldn't believe it, they were moving and bending her limbs this way and that, and she slept through it all.





















Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Emmeline at 1 Month


The first month with Emmeline was a mix of wonderful, miserable, amazing, sleeplessness, and sweetness. It was such a hard month. There were so many new things: being a mom, breastfeeding, labor recovery, hormones, and more. But by the close of the month things started to come together, I was feeling so much better myself and I was able to enjoy Emmeline more. I do hope that with the next baby, I will be able to cherish those first few weeks more than I did this time, because like everyone says, they do grow so quickly. I already miss holding and snuggling with a newborn baby.

It was hard to put in so much time and energy into caring for a little human being without affirmation of their love in return. Which is why I think I started enjoying Emmeline so much more when she started to smile. Each and every little smile made it all worth it, it was like she was saying, "Thanks mom," or "I love you too."

Emmeline's Accomplishments and quirks:
  • Emmeline is starting to smile. You have to work for them, but they're there. 
  • Tolerates tummy time, though only if in her boppy
  • Will sleep through the night (about 6 hours) if in bed with mom and dad. We just wish she would do it in her own bed, lol.
  • Wants to be held all. the. time. The most she will tolerate is about 10-15 minutes in her swing or bouncer chair.
  • Loves looking at her swing's mobile. 
  • Loves to look around, light fixtures are the most fascinating thing.
  • Hates, hates, hates her arms to be swaddled. If we do swaddle them, she will fight it until she's gotten them free.
  • She is a screamer.
  • Likes bath time, as long as the water is warm enough. I finally figured out that the reason she hated baths so much at first was because she was cold. I don't know where they got the idea that newborns only like lukewarm water...
  • Doesn't like the crib or bassinet, and won't sleep in them. In fact if we need to wake her up we put her down in one of them.
  • Unfortunately around 3 weeks old she started to get baby acne pretty bad.
  • While Eric was still home from work, we would take turns sleeping with her on the couch.
  • Has the cutest yawns that take up her whole face. We find them terribly cute and hilarious. Unfortunately, it is impossible to capture the yawns on camera.
  • Has no problem switching back and forth between breastfeeding and bottle feeding--which I love!
  • When we burp her, she slumps over into a little ball.
  • Holds up her own head. Even from birth Emmeline has had a lot of muscle control.
  • Stretches for about 5 minutes after she wakes up from a nap, but stretches for about 10 minutes when we she sleeps in her carseat. 
Sitting up in the crevice of the couch

Tummy time

One of those first smiles

Being burped by daddy

Those big yawns!
This is how we slept for the first 3 weeks of her life.

First time at church.

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Bigger and Better

The last few months before Emmeline was born, our living situation became unbearable.

We lived in this basement apartment off of Lewisville highway. The rent was an amazing deal and came with a washer/dryer and a garage and no contract. We moved there just soon after Eric graduated from BYU-Idaho in September 2012. It was temporary until we knew where Eric was going to get a job, and in the mean time it was nice for me to be closer to work.

A single man in his 40s or 50s named Randy lived in the upstairs portion of the house. He was a nice man, quiet and that was all there was to it. Until sometime in December when all of sudden there was a woman and several noisy children upstairs in the evenings. It was weird because they had never been there before and then suddenly they were there every evening. It was terribly irritating, especially since Eric was working swings, so it was just me and the incessant noise.

And then one day the unwelcome neighbors didn't go home at night. From what we could deduce, his girlfriend and her FIVE children had moved in.

The house we lived in was very old and had nothing in the way of insulation, so every step, creak and word spoken were easily heard. Which is understandable, but when the steps became five children running, jumping, fighting and screaming, my patience ran out. And they had a pet--against policy--which chased his toys up and down the apartment all. night. long.

So out came the broom and when things got to be too much, I would bang on the ceiling, though that only stopped them a time or two. I had Eric talk to the lady once too, but things never quieted.

And months passed. Emmeline was born, and the noises were worse, because we were low on sleep and it seemed that whenever we tried to sleep, we couldn't due to the various noises.

So we became desperate to find a house, anything to get out of that apartment.

We had been looking at houses for quite awhile, and had even put an offer in on a house that we loved. When we didn't get that house we were discouraged because we had looked at at least 20 houses before we found that one. And with Emmeline's birth looming closer we decided not to look until after she was born.

So about a week after her birth we left Emmeline with Eric's parents and went to look at some houses. We feel in love with a house in Ammon. We went to look at a couple other houses a few days later and we returned to look at the house in Ammon again. The next day, Eric and I were determined to put an offer in on the house and were discussing what we should offer when our realtor called and said that the owner's of the house had just received an offer on the house!

We were both stunned! Again! That was exactly what had happened last time. No offers on the house until we are about to put one in. Grr, we were so frustrated. This also meant that we would have to up our game a little, and offer more than we had intended to to be competitive.

After a very long 24 hours we heard that we got the house! We were so excited, and also very nervous. We had just, well basically bought a house. Us! Me, Eric, bought a house!

And about 6 weeks later we closed on the house, and it is all ours. Well ours and the banks :)

We feel so blessed to be able to buy a house. Thank you bad economy and low interest rates!

Here are some pictures of the house when we bought it. Obviously it looks different with our stuff in it, and we've already made some changes and plan to make even more in the months and years to come.


Outside view of house. We have since added a few trees and done a little bit of landscaping--that's for another blog post.



Rv pad behind the fence. We hope to put a shed on the back part of the pad someday.

Front living room.

Kitchen. I plan to paint the walls a nice taupe. I also want to paint the cupboards someday if Eric will let me, and get new counters and backsplash :)
We love having a counter with a bar!

The dining room.

Master bedroom. I don't have a picture of it, but there's a walk-in closet that I love!

Master bath

Front bedroom, which is Emmeline's room. We are going to paint it a light Tiffany blue.

2nd bedroom on the main floor, which we will also be painting it something more mellow.

Hall bath. We are going to be painting this a light gray.

 My favorite part of the house. This is the first part of the living space in the basement.

A full of shot of the family room downstairs. 

We love this little cut out section for the TV. Only our small TV  looks ridiculous in this huge space, lol. 

Downstairs laundry room. I love the cupboards and counter space!

Downstairs bathroom. I wish this were the master bath. it's the biggest bathroom in the house.

Downstairs bedroom which Eric uses for all his guns, police gear, etc.

Other downstairs bedroom, which I use as my sewing and craft room! Not sure how I'll give it up when we have more kids.


And one of the best parts about it is the quiet :)

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

Emmeline's Birth Story


Monday the 21st of January (my last day of pregnancy) started out as a pretty normal day. (I was scheduled to be induced the next morning. I was told to call at 5:30 a.m. and that unless there was a huge influx of laboring women, I would be told to come in around 7:00 a.m.)

I got up, put on my compressions socks, and did a combination of cleaning and relaxing, waiting until my parents came into town later that day to be there for the big day.

Eric had to go to his last day of work at 4 pm. He mentioned how much he didn't want to go to work, and just wanted to be with me and hang with me and my parents later. I told him he could just call in and stay home, I mean I was going to have a baby the next day. But he decided to go to work anyways.

My parents got there around 5:00 p.m. We ran a few errands, getting some last minute stuff for the baby and then went to dinner at Jaliscos.

Funnily enough, I've heard that eating spicy food can put you into labor. Old Wive's Tale? Probably. But since I don't handle spicy foods--at all, I didn't eat anything that could have been a culprit.

However, ironically I DID start having contractions immediately after dinner at about 7:30 p.m. Since contractions had never stuck around for me before, I didn't bother counting. We went back to our apartment and started watching The Amazing Spiderman.

The contractions continued, and I started secretly timing my contractions--I didn't want to say anything to my parents unless they seemed like the real deal.

When all of a sudden, I saw something moving in the corner and screamed and jumped when I realized it was a MOUSE! (Eric likes to say that the mouse put me into labor.)

Of all things to happen at that moment...

Of course my mom freaks out too, and both of us pulled our feet onto the couch, paused the movie and cowered there while my dad set out to find the nasty thing.

Luckily we had some mouse traps that my dad was able to use. I finally announced that I was having contractions. It was getting hard to disguise the pain and the fact that I was having a hard time conversing every few minutes. My mom and I continued to time my contractions, while my dad was busy catching the mouse.

He cornered the mouse in the baby's nursery (shudder) and was able to trick it into running into a trap. It took him about 45 minutes, and in the meantime my contractions got closer and more intense.

At about that time I texted Eric and told him I was having regular contractions and that he should probably come home soon.

About 15 minutes later, they really started to hurt, so I called him and told him to come home immediately.

I was dying by the time Eric got there, it was all I could do to stay on the couch, huddled up in a ball.

Everyone finished getting all of our stuff together and we took off for the hospital. The 30 minute ride was pretty awful. Eric called his dad to let him know that we were going to the hospital. While Eric was on the phone, I realized that he was only going 65 mph! Are you freaking kidding me, I needed to get there asap! So I said in not the nicest tone, "Do you think you could go faster than 65 mph?!?" Of course then he sped up to about 75 :)

We got to the hospital at about 10:30 p.m. Since it was after hours we had to go to the emergency entrance.

I was so relieved when they finally brought around the humongous wheel chair, but with the construction going on and the two elevator rides I swear it took like 10 minutes to get the labor and delivery unit.

DISCLAIMER: This is where people who don't want to hear TMI, should probably stop reading :)

Once there a less than cordial nurse told me to take everything off and get into the gown. Everything? I think not, I don't go anywhere without my bra, not even to the delivery room, besides after doing lots of research, there is no real reason why I shouldn't be allowed to wear one unless my delivery got complicated, and most hospitals couldn't care less if you did. I know this is weird, but keeping my bra was a big deal to me. The nurse came back in and when she discovered I still had my bra on, she scolded me and said, "I told you to take everything off."

To which, for probably one of the only times in my life, I stood up for myself when confronted with a mean stranger. (I talk big, but I cower during confrontation, unless it's family...) I explained that I had read that there was no reason why I shouldn't be allowed to.

She said that because of the metal in the bra that I wouldn't be allowed to, in case of a c-section, and that the anesthesiologists (wow, I spelled that right on the first try--I'm impressed with myself) don't like to work around it. So to appease her, I took it off for the time being (though I deliberately turned around to do it--making a point that my modesty is important to me).

She checked me out and found that I was 4.5 centimeters dilated, and they decided to admit me. (I mean even if I wasn't quite that far along, were they really going to make me go home... I was scheduled to be induced 7 hours later anyways.) I was happy that at least all those painful contractions had accomplished something. She then proceeded to ask me like one-hundred-billion questions. And she didn't seem to care that I could hardly talk during my contractions.

I really did not appreciate this nurse's attitude. I wish I had remembered her name, because I would have contacted her supervisor. I understand that she sees hundreds of delivering moms, and that it was just a routine for her. But having a baby was not routine for me, and I think nurses should be sensitive to that.

The nurse then said that my midwife wanted me to be at a 5 before they called her in and that I should walk around for about a half an hour. 

Walk around without a bra and only some thin hospital gowns on, I think not! As soon as that sorry excuse for a nurse left, I put my bra back on. HA!

At that point walking was painful. I could only hobble around in-between contractions, and had to sit or practically collapse in Eric's arms during contractions. But I persevered for about 15 minutes, before I decided that I had had enough, and that I was going to eventually get to a 5 whether I walked or not. I could tell that I was progressing hard and fast, and I didn't think it was going to slow down (thank you Evening Primrose and Raspberry leaf tea!).

11:30 p.m.

We went back to the room, and when they checked me out again, they went ahead and called the midwife and we got things going. By this time I really wanted/needed my epidural, but apparently I had to get my IV in and get some fluid in before I could get my epidural! Goodness they could have just gotten all of this started when I first came in, because I would have been at a 5 by the time I would have been ready for the epidural anyways.

Getting the IV in was one of the worst parts, I hate IVs, they are just so creepy and I hate, hate the feeling of the fluid seeping into me.

12:30 a.m.

I was eager for the epidural but also terrified. The anesthesiologist showed up and I was worried that he might tell me I needed to take off my bra. But to my delight he didn't even bat an eye, just threaded the tube through my bra :) "Ha, take that, nurse"--the exact words that went through my head at that moment. But, thankfully some other wonderful nurse had taken over at this point. That one nurse had just rubbed wrong in every way possible, and I think it would have made the whole experience that much more difficult if she had stuck around.

I squeezed my eyes shut, tensed my body, and clung onto Eric's hands, and waited for the needle...and it really wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. Phew!

It started to take effect fairly quickly, and I was relieved. Eric went to go get my parents, who had been waiting in the hall this whole time. Now that I had my epidural, I could visit comfortably, which we did for awhile.

All ready to go. Oh my, I was so swollen!

It was interesting to watch the rise and fall of my contractions on the monitor. But every once in awhile baby girl's heart rate would drop, and the nurse and midwife Courtney would rush in to adjust me to get it to go back to normal (which is no small feat when you can't move half your body). At one point, I had to have the oxygen--which just made me a hot, sweaty mess.

Intermittently, Eric would feed me ice chips--the only thing I could eat/drink, but boy was I thirsty!

Approx. 2:30 a.m.

But then I started to get pretty tired, and I wanted to sleep, but I couldn't seem to quite get there. So it was time to break out Anne of Green Gables (my go-to, cure-all for every painful, sleepless, troubling time in my life). I was appalled that some of the nurses had to ask what it was. Really, it's a wonder to me how women get through life without Anne of Green Gables in their life.

Approx 3:00 a.m.

But I only got to watch about 30 minutes of it before the contractions started to get pretty painful again, and I had Eric pause it because the noise was too much. I had to concentrate to get through the contractions again, and I was watching the contraction monitor like a hawk, waiting for the the descent of each one. I had already been "self-administering" extra epidural juice quite liberally, and it just wasn't taking the edge off, so I asked for more drugs :)

The anesthesiologist came back and said that he couldn't really do more epidural-wise, but he gave me some different drugs to try to take the edge off. Which it did, but it was still somewhat painful.

Approx 3:30 a.m. (parents left to go wait it out in the waiting room)

Courtney checked and I was dilated to a 9.5! Wow, yay, things were progressing fast! We weren't quite ready to push, but Courtney went ahead and broke my water. At which point we discovered that baby girl had decided she couldn't wait, and had gone poo in utero, leaving my water a pukey green color. At least that is what Eric told me, I couldn't see it and was glad of it! Ick!

At this point Courtney told us that because baby girl had gone #2, two things could happen:

A) Baby girl comes out crying and all is good, and things happen normally.

or

B) Baby girl doesn't come out crying--which means she may have ingested some of her own poo (yeah, that's right, her own poo! Gross!), in which case they will not "spank" her and try to make her cry, instead they will hand her over to some NICU nurses who will be standing by to pump her stomach. SCARY! I acted all cool about it, but I was pretty worried.

4:00 a.m.

Push time=longest and worst hour and a half of my life!

Yep, you heard that right, I pushed for 1 hour and 30 minutes! Before I started pushing Courtney told me that the average push time for first time moms is 2 hours. I call bull! Every other mom I talked to pushed in the ball park of 15-20 minutes! Some, only pushed 2 or 3 times total! Total! I don't even know how many times I pushed! Dozens at least. And epidural or no epidural, pushing was painful! I'm sure the epidural helped some, I'm just not exactly sure how, 'cuz I. Was. In. So. Much. Pain.

At one point I started to cry and told, pleaded with Eric, "I just want to be done, I just want it to be over with."

5:15 a.m.

At one point a contraction came (at least those weren't very painful), and I just didn't push. Courtney asked me if I didn't feel the contraction, and then when she saw the sheepish look on my face she said, "Or did you just not want to push?"

I confessed that I didn't want to push.

To try and reassure me and get me to keep pushing Eric said, "She'll be here in 15 minutes."

And she was.

Emmeline Grace decided to grace us with her presence at 5:29 am (Eric was quite impressed with the accuracy of his prediction.) We thought it was quite ironic that was she was born at the time the hospital suggested we call to get our induction time.

My first thought was relief, relief that I was done pushing, relief that that pressure was gone. Sadly, I didn't even think about Emmeline for probably half a minute, I was just too relieved. And in my relief I didn't even realize that they had already whisked Emmeline over to the NICU nurses, it all happened so quickly. So quickly, in fact that Eric didn't get to cut the umbilical cord. Emmeline wasn't crying when she came out, so Courtney quickly cut the chord and handed her over per option B.

The NICU nurses had her in an incubator. And I could see Emmeline's backside, but I didn't know what was going on. I remember asking, "What's going on, is she ok?"

And when no one responded, I told Eric to go over there and watch her. But, it was suddenly a little too much for Eric, and he needed to sit down for a minute and catch his breath.

Eric said when he looked over at Emmeline, he saw a nurse shove a very long tub down Emmeline's throat, and he couldn't keep watching.

Finally Emmeline was crying, and a nurse was patting her quite hard on her back.

Her first APGAR test was a 4, but her second test was a 9. So, despite the quick little scare, she was perfectly fine.

After Courtney saw the state of the placenta, which apparently was really calcified and very old, told us that she was surprised at how well Emmeline was doing considering how bad the placenta looked--we felt very blessed. Courtney then asked if I wanted to see the placenta. Really? Gross, no way! Lol.

Finally doing great and weighed in at 8lbs 1 oz.
Emmeline didn't fuss too much once she was doing okay, which surprised me. I assumed that a baby would just cry at least until they were bundled up and held.

She weighed 8 lbs 1 oz. Which everyone kept saying was SUCH a big baby. That somewhat miffed me. I didn't think she was overly large, I thought she was perfect. Besides, I think it is so unjust that 7 lbs and 15 oz is a normal weight, but 8 lbs is a large baby.

She was 19.5 inches tall. She already has height on me. I was 18 inches when I was born.

And then finally, I got to hold my baby girl. It felt like it had been so long! When in reality it had probably been only about 10 minutes or so.

The mean nurse came back into the room with the NICU nurses towards the end and was actually the one to hand me Emmeline. The nurse reached over and started undoing my gown (excuse me!). But I got the last laugh, because when she pulled back the corner of my gown she said, "Oh, I see you got that bra back on." To which I sweetly replied, "Yep." and took my baby from her.

She came out pretty hungry and was mad that I couldn't feed her right away. I tore pretty badly and needed stitches, but Courtney didn't feel too confident doing it herself, so she called the physician on call, and we had to wait for him to come and then it took him about 20-30 minutes. I held her the whole time, but since I was still lying down I couldn't feed her. At first she was fine cuddling, but she grew increasingly frustrated with her unsuccessful rooting.

 And how bad is this? I honestly can't remember which came first. Did they bathe her before or after they first gave her to me? No idea.


I debated a lot about whether or not to post this picture, but I've decided that swollen-ness and partial immodesty aside, I love this picture
I love how content she looks getting her first bath.
Those cheeks!

The nurses kept saying how pink she was. Most newborns have some yellow tinge to their skin, and a fair amount have jaundice. I guess I haven't seen that many newborns to understand the rarity of pink skin. But she certainly had/has beautifully pink and flawless skin. I know this is silly and shallow, but I was so worried that she wouldn't be cute. (I don't believe all babies are cute, some are downright weird looking.) I was so happy when she came out so cute and with gorgeous strawberry blond hair.
They got her all dolled up, and she looked so beautiful!
I wanted a picture of me holding her, but was conflicted with how fat, nasty, and swollen I was feeling that I wouldn't look at the camera, lol. 

Daddy and daughter

With her Grandma Daun

With her Grandpa Daun


Emmeline in her going home outfit--well the one we ended up using. Don't laugh, but I brought three to the hospital.

Though it was definitely an adjustment, Eric and I simply love our little Emmeline and can't imagine life without her!